From a girl to guys...

Yin&Yang · Dec 21 2006, 08:55 PM

This has bothered me for a very long time now-
Do you have any idea what might go around in a boy's mind when he makes a girl a compliment totally out of the blue like "How are you so smart..." or "You are the soul of our class..." just dropping it into the conversation?
The boy and the girl aren't best buddies but get along fine when needed. And the boy has a manner of turning his eyes away when he sees that the girl is looking at him...

Unknown Kaze · Dec 21 2006, 09:41 PM

He likes her but doesnt know how to tell her. As simple as that really.

Neal · Dec 21 2006, 09:56 PM

Yeah sounds it to me too.

"You are the soul of our class..."

Mmm might well be gay though, judging from that ^ XDD

Just kidding, he likes you. D:

Enedok · Dec 22 2006, 01:16 AM

Shy...

He likes the girl, tries to give her compliment when he's ready. But if the girl looks at him he's not ready to say anything. He flips out inside and look away.

Desi · Dec 22 2006, 03:36 AM

Pretty much what they said, including the gay part. or he could just like to focus on things/has to look at something. My eyes do that, so i end up staring at people I don't want too.

Sadly enough a girl looking at a boy means next to shit.

SquallEX · Dec 22 2006, 07:28 PM

err... when i talk i dont look to other ppl eyes, tats all....

Yin&Yang · Dec 22 2006, 09:02 PM

I should add that this has lasted around 4 years now
And the "...soul..." thing was said when having a conversation about who is going to buy a gift for the teacher with someone. after they had told me I was their last hope he just said it out of the blue with a big nervous smile.
With the looking - well he does turn his head away but then sometimes looks again...

Unknown Kaze · Dec 22 2006, 10:16 PM

Hes getting braver, s'all. The big question is do you like him?

XwingsofaresX · Jan 04 2007, 03:15 AM

well, if she like him, she should get to know him. and i agree with the others, not including the gay part. dont worry, ive gone through the same problem with a girl once. im sure she'll b fine

Yin&Yang · Jan 05 2007, 08:57 PM

And in whose position you were in?
Problem - I want to leave to another school so any relations will be difficult if he decides to stay.

Kyll · Jan 06 2007, 09:36 AM

Moving ALWAYS complicates things way to much, believe me. I moved like 7 times between 3 cites throughout my highschool career, and unless you have cash to travel back and fourth, it's not worth it. Luckily I had cash myself. Unless you mean you still ive in the same area but go to different schools, that perfectly fine I think. It just like when ou get a job, you don't see any of your friends while at work.

XwingsofaresX · Jan 06 2007, 05:02 PM

well im just saying.

Kyll · Jan 06 2007, 05:46 PM

Oh, I agree with you about what you said 4 posts back, I'm saying that if you add distance to the mix, it may not be worth it. Otherwise, hell yeah, try it, worst that could happen is you stay single. Never know what you might learn. Getting experience in this kinda thing can really pay off in the future.

Yin&Yang · Jan 07 2007, 02:18 PM

The situation is very messy to me - I'm not certain what i want because every time I make a decision hes actions turn them around, he doesn't seam to have a problem with girls so he should have said something to me and the school I'm hoping to get in is in another town.

Kyll · Jan 08 2007, 11:05 AM

Trying to send signals is a game that can be hard to understand. Nothing does it better than getting some one on one talk. And I once moved only across town and it became quite a pain to travel around to see my friends, I did have a job in the mix though. It's probably fine for you.

XwingsofaresX · Jan 09 2007, 02:01 AM

yeah. just talk to him and youll feel better.

Yin&Yang · Jan 09 2007, 10:58 PM

I have thought about that but never figured out how to do it.

XwingsofaresX · Jan 12 2007, 02:26 AM

well...how about just a normal conversation or something?

Yin&Yang · Jan 12 2007, 10:53 PM

As personal as it is I would like to do it in privet and I can't remember a time when it has been possible more than 2 seconds.
It may seam sad but I have given up hope even if something happens. I have too much at stake at the moment and maybe I'm scared...

XwingsofaresX · Jan 13 2007, 12:36 AM

look, i know its really hard for u, but giving up won't do anything 4 u. trust me, ive given up many times but i still manage to talk to the girls i talk to.