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Yes 20 48.78%
No 7 17.07%
Neutral 14 34.15%
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Old Apr 08 2008, 09:12 AM   #1
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I wonder how many people nowadays get along with their families...it seems whenever I talk to someone they are having family issues..or not getting along with family........
Personally I do not trust my so called family...and there is a reason for that but it is so fucking complexed I don't want to even get into it.....
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Old Apr 08 2008, 09:29 AM   #2
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I've had some trouble with my family, during highschool. But the tension and the arguments stopped once I moved out. I studied in Breda during weekdays and went home for the weekends. Now, things are fine (luckily). But I do know when it is time 'to go'. Tension builds up again when I'm around for a longer period (holidays, etc).
I'm currently staying at my parents house, due to an workplacement of 5 months (I couldn't find a place to live nearby, unfortunately). And I already notice that my feeling says I should be living elsewhere.
But if everything turns out ok, I should be able to find a place of my own (actually, for the two of us ... I can't wait to move in with my boyfriend!) this summer and find the perfect fulltime job to go with it.
Don't get me wrong, I love my family - but I'm just aware that I need my own space (a lot!).
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Old Apr 08 2008, 09:38 AM   #3
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I was kicked out and a bunch of other bullshit...found out somethings....guess it came with adult hood :\
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Old Apr 08 2008, 01:53 PM   #4
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I was kicked out and a bunch of other bullshit...found out somethings....guess it came with adult hood :
That's awful.
Do you still have good contact with your brothers and sisters?
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Old Apr 09 2008, 08:36 PM   #5
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no not at all :\

My bro is in jail and my sis went back to the people who got her into drugs :/

and I'm adopted so.....meh...
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Old Apr 09 2008, 08:51 PM   #6
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I am, slightly fine w/ my family.
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Old Apr 14 2008, 07:22 PM   #7
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Family is a rough topic for a lot of people including myself. problems come and go but for the most part it always works itself out and i'm going to be 21 soon so a lot goes on with family in general at this age (atleast for me it has)
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Old Apr 14 2008, 07:26 PM   #8
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I am, slightly fine w/ my family.
only slightly?

Well i get along with my family however somtimes they get annoying but thats life.
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Old Apr 14 2008, 07:36 PM   #9
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I almost never see my father but the others I usually see. Therefore I choose neutral.
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Old Apr 14 2008, 07:56 PM   #10
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I have a relativly good family life.
It's up and down as any is, but in the end whenever we do fight it either turns into laughter or the fight hangs on for around 3 - 4 days, but thats usual for us. xD
I've had serious fights only when i did spur my dad on extremely badly and he basically pinned me against the wall and threatened me, i ended up staying round my nan's for a couple of days, but in the end of it, he balls himself up for a while then ends up bursting all his fustration out on somebody who spurs him on.
But my family is definatly better than most of my friends, they seem to live in this disfuctional family where its a constant array of drugs and step fathers, mothers and constant fighting.
I'm glad i have the family i have.
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Old Apr 14 2008, 09:05 PM   #11
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I only love my ma <3 Although I have a dad, I've never really considered him as one since he's practically never around. I mean, I havent seen him in almost two years whut. LITERALLY.

There's also my elder sis who I'm pretty distant with and my lil sis who I get along with from time to time. Can't really complain about my situation, considering peeps ain't even got eat.
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Old Apr 14 2008, 09:22 PM   #12
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Buttoh, the same with me. My father is never around and I only see my mother. really I am a little bit tired of my mother since she only thinks about herself and not what I think about my father. Really misses him. really you can say I grew up without my mother and father. Only for six years but afterwards only moving until I got sick for four years ago. Like now I am shizopreinc. I get used to it but still I miss him and my mother is not what I wanted her. She is just a worrying person to me. She alwas worry about me. Sighh...... I can't change my mother but I really never had that supporting mother ever. This is sad but life is hard. This is my story......
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Old Apr 14 2008, 10:11 PM   #13
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Well, I'd be complete liar if I said I get along with my parents and siblings 24/7. I'm the youngest of four. In order, Emily (23), Erin (22), Brad (he goes by his middle name, Matt is 20) and me, 17 (18 tomorrow ). I do love my sisters but I tend to be closer to my brother just because I'm a bit of a tomboy (I'm into video games and sports). We do have our moments (which isn't all too often) where I'd bicker with one of my parents, sisters or brother but the anger only lasts for a few hours and then we end up talking about whatever (whats good on t.v., etc.) and forgetting about the argument completely. We may not be perfect but I love my parents and I think they have raised my siblings and I quite well compared to the home life of some of my closest friends.
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Old Apr 15 2008, 12:52 AM   #14
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I have to say I dont always get along with my family but other than that we get along most of the time. my parents are really generous but I dont always admit it. I have to say I am really greatful my life is as good as It is ^^.
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Old Apr 15 2008, 12:58 AM   #15
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We get along. I tell them what they want to hear, and they don't question it. I'm perfectly happy living that way. I live far enough away from my family they won't find out about every little detail of my life.
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Old Apr 15 2008, 01:35 AM   #16
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Eh it's alright. My parents are seperated but it's never really bothered me. I get along a lot better with my mom though.
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Old Apr 15 2008, 01:43 AM   #17
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This is not THAT bad Elphy?
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Old Apr 15 2008, 03:33 AM   #18
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I'm happy with mine. I'm pretty close to my brother and sisters. I'll say that i'm closer to my mum than my dad, no reason really; the guy just doesn't know how to be corrected, he hates being corrected and if you do he feels like you're looking down on him.

But no one hits each other, the worst thing one family is doing atm is smoking so that's nothing at all.
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Old Apr 15 2008, 04:27 AM   #19
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In my family there is kinda a hierarchy, in which I'm second from the top. My siblings and I fight occasionally, but we argue at least once a week. Despite this, we generally get along most of the time. My youngest brother and I are so well synched that we do almost the same thing--we're great at co-op Resistance. I'm happy to live with one parent--actually, life's never been better.
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Old Apr 15 2008, 04:28 AM   #20
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i dont hate them , but i didnt get along with them.


then so... neutral? or maybe "no"...
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