Date

[tanton18]

I'm going on a date tomorrow night with a girl I've wanted for a long time. Any tips?

[Wandering Hands]

How to snag a lady: With Sleepy Drink.

Follow that and all will be well.





... Is she hot?

[Kätharina]

Don't be a raging dick.
And pay.

[meteor]

I'm going on a date tomorrow night with a girl I've wanted for a long time. Any tips?

Your first date :)?
Just be yourself.And try not to be stressy(difficult first date):P
Jokes are always good to break the ice.Spontanious jokes that is:).
Do not try to be TOO cool.

Do you always asks tips in forums about that stuff?^_^

And like cathryn said.
Empty your wallet:D

[Thunder]

And dont try do be someone you are not.
Just be your-regular-self.

[Devegas]

be cool, nothin to worry about and if anyone outside this thread tells you douchebag advice: DO NOT follow it if u want a second date

[RonTheDawn]

Your first date :)?
Just be yourself.And try not to be stressy(difficult first date):P
Jokes are always good to break the ice.Spontanious jokes that is:).
Do not try to be TOO cool.

Do you always asks tips in forums about that stuff?^_^

And like cathryn said.
Empty your wallet:D

Great advice to follow! I second every word. Wish I had had good advice like this on my first date.

[jparker1390]

Don't fart

[iv4nsbc]

Let her speak, and while she is speaking, show an interest, even if you are not.

And yes, pay ...

[meteor]

Let her speak, and while she is speaking, show an interest, even if you are not.

And yes, pay ...

Thats playerstyle:P.
Showing interest is a good thing but you have too mean it.
If you think different then her just tell it.

[Kitmitsu]

Keep reciepts.

[Alazais]

Thats playerstyle:P.
Showing interest is a good thing but you have too mean it.
If you think different then her just tell it.

If he's wanted her for a long time then I'm assuming he already knows what she likes or likes what she likes, and sabotaging a potential 2nd date or relationship by saying you disagree or dislike something she likes is bad bad advice. You dont' have to mean it, but you do have to try to be understanding, diplomatic and open minded.

Re-affirming your dates opinions or likes is a subtle way of putting the date on the right course... but don't try too hard to do this or you'll end up looking like an asskisser haha.

[meteor]

Ok dont give a shit about that post^


Alazais---->So in a trying to be smart way your stating that lying to get something you want is good?.
Agree with everything even if you dont mean it is lying and having two faces.
Relationships that start that way mostly dont last long.

[opera]

First thing what you should do is to say to her
WHERES MY MONEY BITCH!
Then bitch slap her a few times and say "YOU NASTY BITCH"
works every time if you want a second date :)

[Alazais]

What I mean is, be diplomatic about it. "I'm not so keen on that." as opposed to "No, I'm not interested at all,"-- change topics. I suppose it depends precisely what it is though.

As an example, if the girl I like was talking to me about fairy's or something that she finds fascinating, I'm happy to sit there and listen to her talk about them, and even discuss it myself even though I have no interest in them, I'm not going to say I think they're stupid though, even if I think they are. Relationships are built on compromise, how often do you find somebody you fit so perfectly with?

Odds are you'll find somebody you get along really well with, really enjoy spending time with, want to see more but have a few niggling things that don't quite fit, so you compromise.

Now... if it's an opinon about an issue I have strong beliefs on, like they're very religous and won't commit to anybody who isn't of the same religion, well I'd stop it right there. So yeah, I'm talking about the little things. Make sense now?

[meteor]

What I mean is, be diplomatic about it. "I'm not so keen on that." as opposed to "No, I'm not interested at all,"-- change topics. I suppose it depends precisely what it is though.

As an example, if the girl I like was talking to me about fairy's or something that she finds fascinating, I'm happy to sit there and listen to her talk about them, and even discuss it myself even though I have no interest in them, I'm not going to say I think they're stupid though, even if I think they are. Relationships are built on compromise, how often do you find somebody you fit so perfectly with?

Odds are you'll find somebody you get along really well with, really enjoy spending time with, want to see more but have a few niggling things that don't quite fit, so you compromise.

Now... if it's an opinon about an issue I have strong beliefs on, like they're very religous and won't commit to anybody who isn't of the same religion, well I'd stop it right there. So yeah, I'm talking about the little things. Make sense now?

Nobody is perfect.Both partners must know that. Nobody fits perfectly with eachother.There are always little things.But why lie about those little things?
Be honest in every way without being crude to eachother and try to understand the unperfections of your partner.

[Henry]

Send us a pic!!!!

[SUPER JAM]

Just chilling out , talk and act like you're with your guy friends. Why you want tips , it's not complicated at all b'cuz the tips maybe total opposite when you finally perform it out , so the key is don't be stressed , just flows naturally and informally. For example , talk some topics that's like "what's your favorite food/song/movie...etc?" "what clothing style you like to dress?" , then take her to restaurant and enjoy dinner all night long , don't forget to pay for her too. Then go to dance in disco and finally the destination is some hotel near there ending in the bed.

[Sodedicated]

Be the alpha male, lead the convo, make her feel comfortable around you

If she says "i'll pay", let her do it

[SUPER JAM]

Be the alpha male, lead the convo, make her feel comfortable around you

If she says "i'll pay", let her do it


Well , it means you're very cheap if you let her pay her own even she says 'I'll pay" but the truth inside is she wants you to pay for her in order to show how manly you are

[Sodedicated]

Well , it means you're very cheap if you let her pay her own even she says 'I'll pay" but the truth inside is she wants you to pay for her in order to show how manly you are

No, thats a generalization on your part

I've been on dates with plenty of women that are actualy offended if you refuse to let them pay for small stuff

If it's an expensive dinner, then off course, you pay (Your half at least, in some cases everything)

But if it's something small like coffee, then her paying shouldn't be a problem, if she says she'll take care of it

Lest ye want to face the wrath of the emancipated woman

[SUPER JAM]

No, thats a generalization on your part

I've been on dates with plenty of women that are actualy offended if you refuse to let them pay for small stuff

If it's an expensive dinner, then off course, you pay (Your half at least, in some cases everything)

But if it's something small like coffee, then her paying shouldn't be a problem

Lest ye want to face the wrath of the emancipated woman

I just mean on the first date , yeah you should pay for her.....but the next let's her pay for her own , b'cuz first date should be with the big impression. But all in all , if i am a man i don't want to pay anything for the girl i date with too (lol)......it's very wasteful of resources (lolx2). But all in all it's up on individuals , some girls like to pay for her own and some selfish ones want a man to pay everything for her at the first date....yeahh, and it's always common that you always prefer the women who can pay for her own

[Sodedicated]

No, you should start small on the first date, else you'd come over as desperate or a trick

If I barely know a girl im not gonna spend a lot of cash on her

First date should be small and you should build from there, get to know her first, then think about making a big impression

With me, the 3rd or 4th date is usually the big one

Maybe if you wanna go fast, then by all means make a big impression, but relations that move fast rarely last long, so enjoy the ride while you can

[rutea7]

if he's been waiting to go out with her for a long time then he should do something special, but not too over the top that would make her uncomfortable.

find a balance, dont be cheap but dont make it look like you're showing off or putting pressure on her

[Sodedicated]

if he's been waiting to go out with her for a long time then he should do something special, but not too over the top that would make her uncomfortable.

find a balance, dont be cheap but dont make it look like you're showing off or putting pressure on her

This exactly, I never said he needed to be cheap, im saying he needs to be realistic about this

[SUPER JAM]

No, you should start small on the first date, else you'd come over as desperate or a trick

If I barely know a girl im not gonna spend a lot of cash on her

First date should be small and you should build from there, get to know her first, then think about making a big impression

With me, the 3rd or 4th date is usually the big one

Maybe if you wanna go fast, then by all means make a big impression, but relations that move fast rarely last long, so enjoy the ride while you can

oh yeah , i agree , you're very wise and experienced about this , yeah ok i agree with this theory because it's the way to test her that she likes you because of your money or she really likes you. The hungry-money women always leave their men when the men don't pay anything for her anymore.......and @ the first date you can test it by let her paying on her own (or just make a share if things are expensive) without paying entire things for her , yeah and then the next days if she decides to break up and leave you fast , it means she doesn't love you but she loves your money

[Devegas]

oh yeah , i agree , you're very wise and experienced about this , yeah ok i agree with this theory because it's the way to test her that she likes you because of your money or she really likes you. The hungry-money women always leave their men when the men don't pay anything for her anymore.......and @ the first date you can test it by let her paying on her own (or just make a share if things are expensive) without paying entire things for her , yeah and then the next days if she decides to break up and leave you fast , it means she doesn't love you but she loves your money
(and that's when my other sexual appetite kicked in).
but what you said is true though. there are girls that are comeplete hoes and drive men to hell that way. the stupid part is most men are so far up their asses they can't tell.

[Sodedicated]

Too many men are hypnotized with what they hear and see on TV and don't actually think about what a girl wants

Best way to find out is to simply get to personally know people

[Emo Panda]

Ram her in the ass.

...

Twice. :wtf:

[SUPER JAM]

Ram her in the ass.

...

Twice. :wtf:


Tip : Must be careful of the bescumber

[tanton18]

First thing what you should do is to say to her
WHERES MY MONEY BITCH!
Then bitch slap her a few times and say "YOU NASTY BITCH"
works every time if you want a second date :)


Yeah! I'll do that!


:lol:


But seriously, it's not like I don't know what to do. I just thought if you had some interesting ideas. So thanks!:D

[Wandering Hands]

You neglected to answer my original question.

Is she hot? :wtf:

[tanton18]

You neglected to answer my original question.

Is she hot? :wtf:
More like beautiful and cute then hot.


And no, she is not titzilla.

[iv4nsbc]

We'll be glad if u show some pics ...

I'm with my girl for about 1 year and a half ... The best thing so far, is to be true ... It could hurt first, but it helps to build a better relationship ..

[Henry]

talk and act like you're with your guy friends.
NEVER act like u are with your male friends....!!!

[Sodedicated]

NEVER act like u are with your male friends....!!!

Yellow is wise

[iv4nsbc]

Yellow is wise

Yeah ...

btw, It's time that the boy said it would be his date, I wonder how it's going ...

[Sodedicated]

Yeah ...

btw, It's time that the boy said it would be his date, I wonder how it's going ...

Wondering about another's date is not a healthy thing to do

[tanton18]

Yeah ...

btw, It's time that the boy said it would be his date, I wonder how it's going ...

boy?! :lol:
I'll be 19 in a week. That's being an adult in my country.

And it went pretty well. It was very casual.;)

[Neal]

NEVER act like u are with your male friends....!!!
Why? I mean, unless you're a chav idiot then that's acting like yourself isn't it? Unless you're one of those retards that act completely differently around different people.

[iv4nsbc]

boy?! :lol:
I'll be 19 in a week. That's being an adult in my country.

And it went pretty well. It was very casual.;)

Lol, sorry about that ...
Good for you!

[Sodedicated]

Why? I mean, unless you're a chav idiot then that's acting like yourself isn't it? Unless you're one of those retards that act completely differently around different people.

No, it's just that some girls want to feel special and if that means acting slightly different around her (while still being real), so be it

[meteor]

No, it's just that some girls want to feel special and if that means acting slightly different around her (while still being real), so be it

Indeed.
Nobody can deny that boys act more softer(more open) with girls then with boys(kinda rangorder).

[SUPER JAM]

NEVER act like u are with your male friends....!!!

Why can't? different people like different attitudes , if you act like very gentleman and treat her like fragile princess , i think it's overacting....sometimes acting like ordinary guy friend is better than you try to change to be very gentleman, just look as individuals...(or maybe i like fierce rough harsh type:lol:)

[Devegas]

JAM's right, different people like different attitudes. all depends on who the person is

[Sodedicated]

Playing a gentleman rarely works, so I never do it

http://i29.tinypic.com/novig2.jpg

Slightly exaggarated, but it carries some truth

[Devegas]

ohmygod but sooo true, haha