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Jive Turkey
Feb 25 2008, 07:56 AM
Okay so I am sick and tired of being called emo
I thing the term is being used way too much and it's getting old quick
When I was on my meds I would get either pissed off or depressed but never suicidal....and when I wanted to talk to someone about it they'd ignore me so I always keep my feelings bottled up and shit....then people wonder why I get pissed off so easily....and in any case I have more anger issues then depression issues...so I guess if being pissed off means being emo then I guess I am emo......

I know I'm not the only one here who's had this problem....

Amleya
Feb 25 2008, 08:07 AM
Well, I used to cut.... does that mean I'm emo too, ppl? Just because I used to cut during anger-related situations? >< *hates taking out anger on ppl*

Jive Turkey
Feb 25 2008, 08:09 AM
I take my anger out on the walls
:cookie:

I feel bad when I take my anger out on people....

So I fun the wall and then fix it up wit mah jesus-like carpentry
:cookie:

Amleya
Feb 25 2008, 08:15 AM
I take my anger out on the walls
:cookie:

I feel bad when I take my anger out on people....

So I fun the wall and then fix it up wit mah jesus-like carpentry
:cookie:

I wish I could fix up my arms e.e

Jive Turkey
Feb 25 2008, 08:17 AM
Hell I never even cut myself..ever...I've had ONE suicidal thought and that was only for a night...and other then that I'm never suicidal...I'm just angry cuz my life is sucking right now and I want to just vent

*vents*

My hair isn't even emo >_>

The Chocobo Sage
Feb 25 2008, 12:47 PM
It's because people are fucking idiots that they use terms like this as sweeping generalisations. When in fact, the connotations of the work have become entirely lost and no one actually knows what it means.

For example – Emo was a musical term to describe post hardcore bands in the 90’s, however it lost that meaning and now ANY BAND WITH A SINGER WHO FUCKING SINGS is branded as emo, often with no sonic relation whatsoever

And somehow, God knows how, it has evolved to describe a personality trait which could be anything from depression to suicidal tendencies. Anyone who uses the term in such a way is a first class idiot of the highest degree.

And how the fuck can you look emo? This is purely a product of the music industry catching on to the current musical trend and creating a look for the sound-alike bands that they churn out

The same thing happened to The Cure, their music was among the first to be described as goth. Look what has happened to the use of that word now.

Cathryn
Feb 25 2008, 12:52 PM
Just fucking ignore them, or just shout out 'BLASPHEMY' in a quiet room :aldo:

Jive Turkey
Feb 25 2008, 12:56 PM
Can I go postal on ppl??

I have a hard time ignoring ppl when they judge me without reason
But then again, I do live in a country that is full of ass wipes

Whiplash
Feb 25 2008, 12:57 PM
I've told you this before Elphy, just say the magic words to them: "Piss off"

Jive Turkey
Feb 25 2008, 12:59 PM
That doesn't work for me

I am a kinda violent person, and I like to yell and scream and stuff...

I am a demanding person

Which is why I am now a terrorist

Cathryn
Feb 25 2008, 01:12 PM
That doesn't work for me

I am a kinda violent person, and I like to yell and scream and stuff...

I am a demanding person

Which is why I am now a terrorist


Same. I find it difficult to control my anger in irritating situations, but i think the only thing you can do is either take it as an insult and punch the person. Or try and control your anger.
I'm not very good at doing so since i haven't seen my mentor. D; THE BITCH DITCHED ME :nag:

Jive Turkey
Feb 25 2008, 01:15 PM
I definitly need anger management

My only thing is I will not hit a girl, instead I yell at them.....

I never had a mentor, so as you can imagine I am a very angry person...

Amleya
Feb 25 2008, 01:20 PM
I think it's cuz it's all going mainstream. If anyone just looks like it... they're labeled. -_- *has been labeled too many times*

Cathryn
Feb 25 2008, 01:22 PM
Hulk angry? :aldo:

I'd advise getting a mentor, they work extremely well, i used to spend around an hour just generally chatting with my mentor, and because it was all confidential it was just great to have somebody to spill so much shit that has happened to you recently.

Jive Turkey
Feb 25 2008, 01:29 PM
Yes elphy angry

Yeah I have alot I need to let out, I wish I could afford it though, at the moment I am low on mulla, and anyone I used to talk to about it are the ones who ended up branding me emo......

I fucking love this country

And my fucked up meds and shit sure as hell didn't help......

Fenristh
Feb 25 2008, 03:27 PM
Well, I used to cut.... does that mean I'm emo too, ppl? Just because I used to cut during anger-related situations? >< *hates taking out anger on ppl*

Not really. If you have an average lifestyle and complain about every little fucking thing then you'd be an emo sterotype. :aldo:

Clone of Shadows
Feb 25 2008, 04:01 PM
I definitly need anger management

My only thing is I will not hit a girl, instead I yell at them.....

I never had a mentor, so as you can imagine I am a very angry person...

i didnt know u had angry person, u seemed happy to me. i guess cause on the internet u can let off steam and there r thing that u can hide about urself that u can hide in real life.

any ways i dont have any of the anger stuff and its not right that people get called emo, its like a kind of racisum in a way.

Fenristh
Feb 25 2008, 08:35 PM
any ways i dont have any of the anger stuff and its not right that people get called emo, its like a kind of racisum in a way.

Rofl. Not quite. :/ Saying someone is inferoir because of the country they/their parents were born in is a bit more offensive than calling someone emo.

N O C T E
Feb 25 2008, 09:55 PM
Hmmm, I wonder how many people on here think I am Emo and cut. :aldo:

safer_waters
Feb 25 2008, 11:21 PM
It's because people are fucking idiots that they use terms like this as sweeping generalisations. When in fact, the connotations of the work have become entirely lost and no one actually knows what it means.

For example – Emo was a musical term to describe post hardcore bands in the 90’s, however it lost that meaning and now ANY BAND WITH A SINGER WHO FUCKING SINGS is branded as emo, often with no sonic relation whatsoever

And somehow, God knows how, it has evolved to describe a personality trait which could be anything from depression to suicidal tendencies. Anyone who uses the term in such a way is a first class idiot of the highest degree.

And how the fuck can you look emo? This is purely a product of the music industry catching on to the current musical trend and creating a look for the sound-alike bands that they churn out

The same thing happened to The Cure, their music was among the first to be described as goth. Look what has happened to the use of that word now.

Quoted for truth.

And if anyone EVER tells you that there is something wrong with hating then you just tell them to grow a pair and stfu. i hate on people all the time...it's almost a past-time among my friends.

if that doesn't work, go buy a punching bag. those things work wonders, i'm not even kidding.

Brave27heart
Feb 26 2008, 01:00 AM
Back in my day it was Greebo. Emo huh? Is that what you crazy cats call it these days?

Damm i feel old sometimes.

Society loves to labels everything, like it makes it easier or something.
"Right then, you listen to this kind of music, wear black a lot, have a tendency to shout at other people, your hair looks like you just got out of bed and your body has so many piercings im suprised the fluids stay in your body. Right then, we'll call you an Emo".

Actually mate, Im Nathan. And suprisingly last time i checked, which was a few hours ago so things might have changed since then, i was a person, not a label. Wait a sec...

*checks*

Yup, definately not a label.

Fenristh
Feb 26 2008, 02:04 AM
Back in my day it was Greebo. Emo huh? Is that what you crazy cats call it these days?

Lol I remember that. XD Goth/Emo was Greebo.

steeld
Feb 26 2008, 03:25 AM
i once tried suicide... but i lost my little brother and my best friends right infront of my eyes... i always thought it was my fault, so i cut my wrist in the hottub, my guardian noticed it quickly.. does that count as emo??
otherwise i never had any other suicidal thougths,,, furhtermore i think it's stupid to label people! :nag:

Devious
Feb 26 2008, 03:41 AM
I don't take out my anger at all. The most extreme I've ever gone is yelling or biting my lip, and I haven't done the first for over three years. Surpressing anger is much more convenient than physically taking it out. Less painful too.

Besides, It's rather difficult to get me angry. You could hit me in the face, and I wouldn't be angry. I've also NEVER had any suicidal thoughts or even thoughts of self-inflicted pain.

N O C T E
Feb 26 2008, 09:39 AM
Besides, It's rather difficult to get me angry. You could hit me in the face, and I wouldn't be angry. I've also NEVER had any suicidal thoughts or even thoughts of self-inflicted pain.

XD

You should see how much shit I go through every day w/out killing someone. :aldo:

The only time I have blown up at school was in 9th grade, and I beat the shit out of some kid then, and got OSS. :cookie:

Jive Turkey
Feb 26 2008, 10:27 AM
Yeah same here: I can control my anger at work and in public, but when I'm at home it's a different story

And nocte, I don't think you're emo, you're just nocte
:cookie:

safer_waters
Feb 26 2008, 05:35 PM
i'm sorry, but there is NO WAY that someone can go forever being totally idle and even-tempered. the moment i moved off to a college town, i INSTANTLY went on a multi-year rampage. in fact, i'm still kind of pissed as we speak. it's hard to stay calm when you are surrounded by thousands of tards who should never have been given a drivers license. 10 minutes on the road is more than enough to get my blood boiling...

Rochana
Feb 27 2008, 05:25 AM
you need to chill. i am a very chill person, which has many times gotten me accused of being stoned out of my mind, but I am NOT. I am just at peace, and that's where I'd like to stay. Although one time I told me next door neighbor he could fuck himself, because he was being a little bitch, and it's been quite akward ever since. Especially when you live in a small town where you have the exact same people in all your classes...