Assistance (ASAP)

[Muramasa]

I'm having a problem....

My girlfriend has recently broken up with me. (not the point)
There's someting about her that worries me. She is usually either happyish or angryish. But sometimes she's neutral, and when she's neutral, she used to go "emo". I don't know how to turn this around. Dammit! If something happens to her, I couln't live with myself.

She's talking about how she's trying to find her innocence again....oh hell, I think I just got it. that bastard. I'm gonna fucking kill him!!!

If he went and did something to her. I swear to God he's gonna hurt!!!!!!

Help me. I don't know what I should do. I've never been without answers with this before.

[Ringlets]

Ok 1) Talk to her. I didnt do that with my girlfriend (ok on purpose but whatever)and it messed everything up. Just ask her about stuff, might put your mind at ease and might solve everything.

2) Whoses this "him"? Try and ignore him for now. Pop im out of the picture.

By the way, keep the whole girlfriend thing out of it when you talk to her. Be her friend, easier to talk to her that way.

[Käthe]

By the sounds of it she needs to learn to control her emotions.
Don't just blame the cycle of a womans productive system (:cunning:) because that usually isn't it.
It seems she's either put herself into a bad situation or something relativly serious has happened to her (I'm just taking a marginal guess so don't totally take my advice)

I can't really help much past that, because 'finding your innocence' doesn't help much, nor does it help you because she isn't really telling you the situation.
All i can say is confront her about it.

[Muramasa]

Sorry, but I'd like to keep my head. (kidding)
She dosen't share what's going on in her head, she just up and let me go yesterday, and I talked to her last night. She sounded suicidal. And what's worse, Im in AR and she's in TX. Bad day here folks.

[Ringlets]

Did she just randomly break up with you? No provocation?

[Hitoshura]

She's emo? It shouldn't be hard to figure out why she did break up with you.

[Desi]

This topic is emo. She broke up with you and you are wondering if she is alright? I am positive you aren't super model status.

[Exodus]

1) Kill her.
2) Burn her corpse.
3) Dump ashes in a river/ocean.
4) Forget it happened.
5) Don't ask for relationship help on a Final Fantasy forum where majority of members aren't even over 15.

I'll post seriously when I see a serious topic. :)

[deceptacon]

just sounds like her excuse to get out of a bs long distance relationship, she found another dude, and doesn't want to hurt your "feelings"

[Passion]

She broke up with you; and you care for her and what has happened?

If she's talking about how she's 'lost her innocence' then really - just think of it as her own fault. It's harsh, but would she care as much if it were you and she were single and/or in a relationship?

[Muramasa]

I've gone to see her every year, its not like its a "bs long distance relationship"
(every two months for two weeks to be exact)

We've talked it over, and I'm satisfied, even though I feel like someone just ripped my heart out and burned it to a crisp.

You know, this remindes me of a certain song, "Love huuuurts" (like a bitch)

[deceptacon]

so every 2 months you take half a month off of work ?

[Muramasa]

Not really.
I work when visiting her too. Granted, not as much, but I still get the job done. (if I didn't, I'd been fired long ago)

[Passion]

I know it sounds weird but; if you had split up with her and you were acting as you did. Differently and 'not right', would your ex care as much for you?

[Muramasa]

Before we got together, we were really close friends. And even though I'm being eaten
alive, I'm still going to be her friend.
-_-

[Passion]

Yeah understandable but if she's gone with someone and is not getitng over something that's happened or isn't happy with things.

It's her own problem isn't it?

[Muramasa]

Compassion's in my nature. I see her hurting and I have to help. I may be single now, but that dosen't mean I'm not still in love with her.